>Is it ever feasible?
>Under what circumstances can it work?
My personal opinion is that it's a lot of work--and from my experience too much. Although that was in the case of trying to maintain a serious relationship. Although I look at my roommate and she and her boyfriend have a spectacular L.D. relationship. I think it comes down to personality types and what you're looking for in the relationship. But, I'd love some input on this... and Brad, the answer is not Dr. Pepper or donuts :) and Kenji the answer is not that you have a penis--although you do.